What a srtange response where would you get sexual abuse? There are no signs of that what so ever. I think that boy is a mess and he needs to be taught what boundaries are. He needs respect and a true understanding of who his parent is. HE NEEDS HIS ASS WHOOPED WITH A NICE SWITCH BRAID....WHOA
The mother child situation is sad, but i think your comment is also sad. there are so many comments you could have made, but you lost your creditability when you claimed sexual abuse. I'm afraid if that is your only thoughts and comments, you might just need some counseling yourself. if you are a sexually abused person please seek help.
When ever the world sit back and laugh at such an abomination we are in trouble. The world is confused. Now that we have totally rejected Christ our children are rejecting us. These type demons have to be cast out.
Your probably right. Something other than a usless parent is at fault here. For a child to harness that kind of rage he was either abused or has seen his worthless dad strike his mom. In either case it's not appropriate.
The way he was begging to stay with anyone else suggests a really poor home life and a possible abusive situation.
On the other hand if this kid is just a huge bratt he needs his hide tanned!
My Mother and Father both used corporal punishment on me when I messed up bad enough to deserve it and you know what I wouldn't have it any other way!
Sexual abuse? Ok, how long has the son been sexually abusing his mother?
MY MOTHER WOULD GRAB MY ARM IF I EVEN RAISED MY HAND i WOULD KICK HIS ASS.
Very Hilarious!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She's stupid. And she must've wanted to get her ass slapped! Because there is no way ever... an 11 year old would have the thought of raising his hand at me and still live to see this video!! I would have been the next case on Court TV...
This is a mess. I would have to kick my child's butt. She brought that child in the world not the other way around. Man, to believe these messed up, overly aggressive children are going to be the people that take care of my generation. I totally agree with you.
This is absolutely ridiculous!!!!! I know that some children are naturally aggressive, but when you start out by putting them in time out...what should you expect? He has no respect for authority and needs to be dealt with sternly. Also, let me say that parents are the first example of manners their children witness. They must excercise respect to a certain degree and not provoke children either. That was a conversation that should not have happened, once I said be quiet, he would have closed his mouth. She continued to talk to him, which allowed him time to get worked up...I guess we would have both had a new place to saty...him in foster care and me at the nearest women's prison!
As a black women I would normally say whip his butt; but because of the pain that is in the voice and eyes of the little boy, that tells me that his mother is not a listener but constantly yells and slaps. He only slapped her to show her how it feels when a person that you love constantly tells you to shut up and then slaps. There is also more things going on with the mom. I didn't see a father so I will assume that she is not married, overworked, tired and frustrated or a combination of several things.
Amen! Amen! Amen! You are exactly right! I am a public school teacher and I have 2 children at home (divorced mom). That word of advice goes for both places. Adults should not engage in verbal altercations with children. It only escalates the situation and provokes children 'cause you end up getting upset and saying something you shouldn't say. As for my own children, I'm going to hit them if they continue to talk after I say to be quiet. As for the school, I send a student out of my room, if he/she feels grown enough to talk back to me. I have little tolerance for disrespect from children. I love your last statement because I feel the same exact way. I could not have been on Dr. Phil's show at that time. They'd have been hauling my child off to the hospital and me off to jail!
Can't anyone see that this boy's mother is much at fault here?
She obviously failed in dicipline. The son is screaming to be given a chance to explain to her, her unfairness. And she incenses him further, by talking over his protests. I think the slap was a last resort by him to be heard. I don't think there was any malicious intent in that. It was the only way to explain to her how much she hurt his feelings. Obviously, the child has endured abuse, by an absent-minded poke or slap, when the mother doesn't want to be bothered.
Flat out, no African-American parent would ever let their child raise their voice like that and even have this debate, less known, put their hands on them. Sad to say, White people let their kids do this kind of crap all the time. They think they're giving their child respect and freedom. What they're doing is letting them develop into arrogant, disrespectful whack jobs.
This is the type of things that happen when you allow your children to say and do what ever they want. First of all as a parent you do not go word for word with your child. Your child only option is to listen or get dealt with. I have two children and they would NEVER raise their voice or hand higher then their knees at me or any other adult. Then he is constantly telling her to shut up. I would have chopped him in his dam throat!!!!!
You are sure right! Then I would have punched him in his stomach too! When he did get up out of his hospital bed I would have been getting paroled!
I agree I would never let a child feel that they are have the option to talk to me as if we were peers. The first shut up would have been a wrap let alone the slap in the face. There would be no way I would have refrained from busting his ass. I would have said "cameras off" then all hell would have broke loose.
The next serial killer.
THIS CHILD NEEDS A good reformatory dose of pain and punishment.
I would whip his ass and then call the authorities to come and get us both. And the only part of me he would see would be from a picture.
OK you said that!
Ditto!!! My boys would never have thought about it. It is all how you raise your children. I don't believe in spare the rod, spoil the child. I spoiled my boys, but they got the rod also.
TPJ of CT.
Dang, She went wrong somewhere along the way of raising him. Chilren have parents for a reason.
But that slap would not have been acceptable, I admire that she did not hit him back, because she would have acted on emotion only. and parents have to be able to restrain themselves, even when they don't want to.
Admire????? You are the nutty one. This video would have been another 5 minutes longer because I would have to be restrained from seriously hurting that child. Is she afraid of him? He will be kicking her butt in a very short time-- maybe even now. Since he knows he can get away with slapping her (in public no less), the next aggression will be even more devastating -- for her, not him.
What, are you crazy? There is no way in hell I will sit there and let my son smack me and I sit there and restrain myself. I would have grabbed his arm and tell him if he ever lifted his hand to me again I would break his arm! I have 8 children ages 4 - 17, they would never in million years think of putting a hand on me. And when you let your children put a hand on you once, they will do it again. I have never hit my children, so I would expect the same respect back.
My father always told us, and I am one of 8 kids myself, he said the same hand you use to put a hand on one of your parents, you will never use that hand again.
I don't admire her for not hitting him back, that's why he talks to her and treats her like that because she does not whip him. There is a difference between beatin and discpline, and she does neither one. I would've had the belt to his butt in a split second or if he wants to be grown treat him like that and beat his ass.
I WISH MY KID WOULD!!!!!!!!!!!!
naw she should have knocked his ass out since he wanna act like he grown beat that ass like he grown!!!!11
Restraint? Admiration? Show some restraint when this lil' malfeasant is dating your daughter, pushing your mother down the hallway in a nursing home, or smothering babies in a nursery because they cry too loud. This is clearly a case of reform school, child protective services, or a juvenile detention center that guarantees OLD FASHIONED DISCIPLINE. Its not his fault he is the way he is. She's guilty of criminal neglect. Nevertheless and unfortunately - he has to pay the price. Restraint? I got your restraint and admiration - right here in a bag of rocks upside his head.
Are you serious? Discipline is not restraint. If that were so, then prisoners would be on the streets and we would have some serious issues. (More than what we have now) This needs to be dealt with and emotionalism has nothing to do with discipline. I sure hope you don't have children, because your restraint is going to get your ass whipped.....by your child!
I like your answer and thought of reason you were able to
disern both sides. It's clear to see what happens with a
child left without discipline from the start. a very
big problem in our society, leaves us to seriously wonder
what the future holds for such individuals as this.
This person is stupid. As a mother you lead by example, but when he raised his hand and slapped her, I would have slapped the hell out of him. The example would be to show this child if you do this to someone else, then this will be your result. This child has no respect for his parents and if he needs another place to stay and thinks he's getting bad treatment at home...then send him to me. There is no talking back when someone in authority asks or tells you something and it's not subject to debate. If he got away with it once...he'll do it again. To even explain to this child why she said no is unthinkable. Explaining, for example, why he needs to go to school or clean his room might warrant an explaination, but when a mother says no to a request, no means no. And there are some of you who wonder why these children grow up and kill their parents. Too much authority taken from the parents and children thinking they can't be touched.If this is not corrected the police or his peers will correct him later.
Some people should not have children....she is one of them. He is not a "dude", he is her son....
that was her first mistake, in calling him dude, she probably thought she could talk to him like his friends do and out the window went his respect for her as an adult.
What in the world?? I wish my child would! He needs a good butt whipping! Forget the reasoning!
Go girl I am there with ya.
that boy needs to shut-up and get his butt slapped!!!!!
I agree. Old fashioned butt whipping, bare ass with water on his butt for extra sting, use a wooden paddle with holes drilled in it or a leather belt, maybe a peach tree switch. Do it whenever he gets out of line. He should have had his bare ass torn up in front of the entire audience.
in my country child would be execute for this outrage
In my HOUSE, the child would be executed!! lol
where are you from?
I HAVE NEVER SEEN NOTHING LIKE IT. IF HE DOES NOT HAVE RESPECT FOR HIS MOTHER, WHAT MAKES U THINK HE WOULD HAVE IT FOR ANY ONE ELSE. THAT CHILD NEEDS TO GO TO BOOT CAMP.
that's a shame. It's the way she raised him. the Bible says "to honor thy mother and father". Do they teach their children those morals? I wonder
Boot camp is not an option this child need a boot on his AZZZZZZ. This kid has been hitting this mom for a long time.
I don't know what else to say that hasn't been said. He is talking about he needs another place to stay. Can you say "boot camp"?????? I applaud the mom for keeping her cool because baabbyyyyy if I had of been the mom in that chair the whole world would have hated me because I would have been on him like his skin.
Correction, The World would not have hated you . . . trust me!
Hell-Ya, Ya-Dang Wight about that one!
All I hve to say is when he woke up from the comma with his jaws all wired up and hand seperated from his wrist....... well u know the rest.............AINT THAT RIGHT MY SISTAS
I have to co-sign on that one.
you got that right "girlfriend or brother!" that is unacceptable behavior. he thinks he is equal to his mom and somehow she has helped create such an impression.(maybe unknowingly...) What about a few years from now when he is taller and bigger..I promise you he WILL beat her ass.....