i dont blame that kid i blame his MOM (for lack of a better word) and her letting society raise her kid. if my daughter ever THOUGHT of putting her hands on me, man my interview would have been done from behind bars!
I am a mother of 4 and I use a 5 point system.
1. your whole Govt. name is called out
2. sit for __ min with me talking about the issue(i.e. 5 yrs = 5 min)
3. you sit alone and think about your actions.
4. you go to your room no tv. no toy,
5. (corporal punishment) slapson on the bottom, 4 max.
now with all that said I believe children are people too they are all different each with thier own personality, however, I am the parent and what i say goes, i always will respect children... But, do not for a moment believe that I would put up with that sh*t! I would kindly ask them to turn the camera off and then, sh*t as his hand go up he gets a chop in his throat... she need to nip that boy in the bud, he will get older, bigger and her life will be in danger... he kept looking at the camera, he was definately performing... HE IS SPOILED.
CAN YOU SAY BACKHAND?
That child would have not even made it to the slap. He would have been backhanded out of that chair long before that. And if he was still brave enough to try the slap, I would have dialed 911 and started beating him until they peeled me off of him. Too late to discipline him now - he's out of control.
The whole reason the kid is upset is because she elbowed him to make him stop being annoying. So she used a "physical act of aggression" to make him stop tapping her and everyone is all riled up about him slapping her?? You reap what you sow.
Yeah true he is beeing logical and she is just acting mad. How about she said she was sorry and it was wrong for her be violent. Teach him to put things behind istead of teaching him denial.
The kid needs Jesus. But in the meantime he would get his wish and live somewhere else - juvenile detention. Let's see how many of the autorities and fellow immates he slaps there.
I see a beat down in that kids future! If not by the police by someone in the streets! My kids tell each other not to talk out of turn or else get a beat down by me! You, as the parent, should train a child how you want them to live, breath and act in your presence and in the presence of other individuals. Clearly, that mother hasn't trained her child. Child training should start at a very young age. If kids receive beat downs when they are young, you better believe when they get older you won't experience as many behavorial problems. All I have to say to my kids is, "Keep Talking!" and they shut up quickly. It don't take much. Not many words at all. I don't think you should tell your kids, "Shut Up!". That is rude. My mom didn't even have to use words. All she used were her eyes and I would shut up. I got many beat downs and it did not affect me at all. I am successful and my kids are gifted. So who says beat downs don't help????
All I have to say is: "He could NEVER be in my household"
I would have beat the livin "sh*t" out of him soon as he
commits ta raisin that right hand, he would have went to
the left ONE TIME not to the left to the left!
That's what's wrong with children...He got away with it!
No Couldn't be my child!
I bet he was on his playstation within an hour...
THAT KID WOULD BE HANGING FROM A CILING.
This is a case of a child that is OUT OF CONTROL, which had to start a long time ago. But this is good for all of those peole to see who believes in this "talk pschology" with kids. You can talk to a controlled child, but an uncontrolled child needs his ass whooped...So if we live in a world in which the law does not want you to whip your child, 1 of 2 things would happen with me...Either they can pick me up & take me to jail or I can gladly drop my child off at the police station for them to take home & "not whoop his ass" when he slaps them.
That poor kid. I am the only person who is crying right now after watching this. Something is up with that mother. He is crying out for help.
In the immortal words from the movie "Hustle and Flow"...
WHUP DAT TRICK!!! GET HIM!!!!
I feel sorry for his poor teacher!
The truth of the matter is that this world is soon to be destroyed, that's why so much sh*t is happening. Therefore, it is very important for each us to try and make a positive impact towards one another, because the time is near and GOD is soon to return. While GOD is focusing on winning souls for his KINGDOM, remember the DEVIL is also doing the same thing, considering his time is running out. Therefore, the mother should have spanked her son's bottom for the way he acted, and maybe he would think twice before talking back and hitting on her and anyone else. Spare the rod, spoil the child. What a sad situation. Nowadays, kids practically can get away with murder. What we need today, is for parents to treat their children like those of us were treated back in the day. It's called discipline, morals, and respect.
THAT KID NEEDS A LOT OF HELP. COUNCELING, BOOT CAMP, SPEND A NIGHT IN JAIL, BE TAKEN WITH ADULT SUPERVISION TO SEE HOW ROUGH OTHER KIDS HAVE IT. SOME KIDS AREN'T EVEN CLOTHED OR FED. MY MOTHER WOULD HAVE KNOCKED ME ON MY ASS IF I DID THAT TO HER. I HAVE CHILDREN AND IF THEY DID THAT TO ME I WOULD HAVE KNOCKED THEM OFF THEIR ASS TOO. I REALLY GIVE A LOT OF CREDIT TO THE MOTHER FOR HAVING PATIENT'S. DON'T GIVE UP AND GET HIM SOME HELP FAST!!!
Put money on the book for me . I'm doing life
I think this is what's wrong with todays society as a whole !!You can not parent your child regardless whom you are for afraid of being locked up,No you shouldn't beat your kids,But as a parent after all other options you should have the right to spank,This is why we have kids killing other kids in schools making bombs at home in to drugs and no matter how well you raise a child come jr high -high school,they get with their peers and all you have taught them is out the door,Get real how to you time out a 6ft 190 pound boy who says go to hell and ect,as a parent what do you do when your child is on drugs?Your child now has to give permission before a parent can have them drug tested,It is their decision people whether they get treatment or not,The Law says??It's the childs right,Yea you can do counseling yea yea,But if child don't listen to parents or teachers why would they listen anyone else there not going too,And sadly but true most parents can not get help for there children until they break the law,Now how sad is this.The blame needs to go on the Child,He is plenty old enough to control is own actions,people if you say your child never would then one of 2 things you are either very lucky or your children are small and you are Blind,Some of the most best parents have had Children commit murder,Every single day it;s getting much harder to parent as children now seems to have more rights then the parent,Unfortuantely society has made it this way..
Loud and clear: As the saying goes - Raise crows and they will peck your eyes out. Growing up I could not even raise my voice, muchless make heavy antics --- towards anyone, especially my Mother. I feared my parents in a loving and yet respectful manner, and this had made me the person I am today. All this take about applauding the Mother for not knocking the life out of him... you people do not know WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT. If that was my child - well hell, I wouldn't even be on that show because my child would know better than to play a fool with me. Send that kid to make neck of the woods - I'll beat his ass- all I need is 5 minutes- He'll never be the same.
If that was me all I gots to say is that.....this story would've played out a whole lot differently! It would've gone a little something like this!
Breaking News.....Story at 6:00 pm
MOM gets escorted off the jail for Whuppin' a Childs Ass On National TV
Child Gets Medivacted to Nearest Hospital for life threatning Injuries and a foot up his Ass!
WTH????? I cannot imagine talking to my parents like this much less raising my hand to strike. DNA from my toothbrush would have to be provided to the police to locate my body after my parents stoooooooomped the shyt out of me!!
This mom lost control long ago. You cannot use adult rationale with a child, and discipline must be measured out from early childhood. You set rules, boundaries & consequences for breaking the rules per your morals and your childs maturity level. You stay consistent, and set the example.
I pray that this mom receives the necessary tools and assistance to regain control so that she can raise this boy to be a productive citizen and not the next school shooter or serial killer.
I am truly blown away by this clip. I grew up in the 70's with a single parent (my Mom), and we did not get "spanked"....we got "BEAT DOWN". You respected your elders....related or not. You spoke when spoken to, did not enter into adult conversations, and NEVER/EVER talked back, let alone raised your hand to an adult.
I made a promise to myself that if I was blessed with children, I would do everything in my power to never have to lay hands on them...but GOD as my witness..I WOULD BREAK THEIR NECKS if they ever talked/behaved towards me the way that boy did. The Mother in that clip is totally to blame for his behavior, and until she can see that and get the guidance she needs to correct the situation, she needs to sleep with one eye open, because that child had enough anger in him to kill her in her sleep.
Blown away in Arizona
No way in hell would this happen in my house. My two daughters are sitting here as I type this and they already know I don't play with them like this. They thought this was funny but they know in this house, ain't but one woman and that is me. When they are (or think they are) as old as me, it's time to get your sh*t and step.
P.S. They are still laughing....
Ohhhh hell no. I would have slapped the sh*t out of his little fat ass!!!!
There is no point of view that can be beaten into acceptance. But until a child's ability to understand starts to take hold and mature, popping that butt is required. You have to tie a price to "doing wrong" which is done by handing out a whupping when required. A child should never slap a parent in the face in a DISCUSSION and nobody should ever unprovoked, strike another person if you can't fight.
If it was my child I would have floored him and resumed talking. I bet he would have been TALKING for the rest of the encounter too and the thought of swinging on me would not enter his mind again without the memory of getting dropped following along with it. That's tying a price to an action, so he has to consider if he wants to talk or slap, with full knowledge of how the two differ in the end.
Im African; In my country this type of boy would taste real good in a hot beef soup prepared by the tribes men.
On a Serious note,
WHERE IS HIS DAD
That is UNACCEPTABLE behavior!!!! I am from the old school and it is no way a child of mine would even think about slapping me. They would have rather wrestle with the devil then to mess with me.....
Can we say "Holy Cow"
Apparently this child has some deep emotional issue. He should have an array of test done to see what the problem is. He may need some medication to help control his sever aggressiveness. I applaud the mom for her self control after he slapped her. I know I wouldn't have taken it lightly; he would have gotten something from me reminding him that I am the MOM and his extreme negative behavior will not be tolerated.
My mom use to say to my four big brothers, "I bought you in this world, and I would take you out! So try me if you will"
I can see this "CHILD" getting so angry with his parents, that he is capable of plotting to kill them. Please save her from her own son!
I watched this show that day and all I could say was this could not have been my child! He was out of control and needed some serious discipline! This is the reason why so many children are being lock up in jail because they aren't getting any punishments at home. She should have seen this type of behavior in him at an early age. This type of behavior is just not acceptable.
The Mom is at fault too...
That boy was crying out.If you listened to the exchange the boy said, how do YOU like that? She didn't slap him back because of the cameras. I think she slaps him, tells him to shut up,screams,etc,etc. Kids mirror what they see. She is fed up but guess what, so is he!! Her approach with him has gone wrong from day one. They need REAL counseling.
This is what the Bible says things will be like in the last days. Kids will be disobedient to parents and other critical times hard to deal with which is located @ 2 Timothy 3:1-5.
I would kill him and go to jail. This child should not be unleashed on society.
Wooowwwww..... this kid needs a chill pill or something. If I ever said, "Shut up!" to my parents.. um.. I would get beaten. If this happened where I used to live, the kid would probably be dead.. =/ He needs to have give his mom some respect.
Well now I'm going to say, slap the sh*t out of him back, and drop kick his ass into the next century.
Ok I would Kick his butt like a man and then put him out, Where is the father in all this????????????????
A beautiful woman who got "hooked up" with an abusive baby daddy! End result-Demon seed! He's just repeating what he has seen around the house over the years. Where is Dad anyway? I applaud you single mothers that "hold it down" but it takes both parents to raise these kids. Fellas - STEP UP! Let's be a father to our children! and then volunteer !!
There is no way in the world I would let a child slap me or talk to me in that manner. She needed to beat his little azz. There is no way possible that I could have treated my mother that way and still be here. I would of whip his butt and call the authorites to come pick me up and him. Someone would have to take him. He needs professional help because if he does not get help than God help society which will have to deal with him. I am praying for that mother but truly she needs to reach out and touch and I do not mean somebody's hand. She needs to put the fear of God into him. I can not believe this video.
This kid has issues but they come from years of abuse from the the mother. When a kid says they don't want to stay with their mom. Something is REALLY REALLY wrong.
This is what's wrong with our country. Everyone comments that this kid should get spanked, but in the real world of today...people call child protective services & don't allow a parent to parent anymore. Children know the system & threaten parents by saying they are going to call CPS. Our whole society is messed up. If a child gets spanked these days at the supermarket, the parent is looked at badly or worse..as in my case, they have the nerve to tell me I shouldn't use violence to treat violence. Well, kids need to know where their boundaries are & what is exceptable. Unfortunately for me, I let peer pressure of the other parents keep me from disciplining my child properly. Now he is 6'3 & 300 pounds & he scares me. He has hit me before....now it's too late for me.
"He who spares the rod hates his son, But he who loves him disciplines him promptly." - Proverbs 13:24
This is what happens when parents don't spank their children when it is needed. This young man did not just start behaving this way. When he was 4, for example, and told his mom to shut up the first time (that's about the age that most children push the limits to see what they can get away with) Mom should have dispensed a spanking then to lay the foundation of her authority.
We live in a world now where people have confused discipline with abuse. A spanking and a beating are two different things. TV shows like "super nanny" didn't exist 20 years ago because parents knew how to discipline their children and were not hesitant to do it. This is just one example of an all too prevalent trend.
Appropriate, controlled corporal punishment balanced with age appropriate conversation to educate one's child is both effective and necessary. It worked for me, it has worked and continues to work for my now 10 year old son.
This is what happens when you are your child's friend instead of the parent. He has more parent controll than the Mother. Something is wrong with MOM .... where's DAD???? My MOther would have killed us (all 10 of us!!!) and told the police that she did it. Time out is a bunch of crap too .... Time to whip his behind.
Oh, If he was mine his teeth would have been on the floor. In the first place he wouldn't have been hitting me and in the second place he definitely wouldn't have slapped me. When he scooted up and acted like he was raising his hand to me I would have done him in then. As was stated before. Parents are childrens first role models and we as parents can screw our children up. But you don't put your hands on your mother especially a Black mother that's a death wish.
I Agree! You do not put your hands on the one who brought you into this world , because they are the same ones who can take you out of here.
OMG!!!! Can he live with me for 1 day??? This is ridiculous - this dude is talking about he controls his life - tell him to take his ass to work and provide for himself then. This mother is clearly afraid of her son and he has no respect for her. This is what happens when you try to be a friend and not a parent. She should have tore his ass up...but right now, she needs her ass beat for letting a freakin child talk to her that way and slap her.
I wish my son would put his hands on me. He wouldn't have the chance to even get his arm up to hit me. On top of that why are they having a conversation about it, if I say sit back, then sit back, if I say bequiet that's what I mean. The child does not have a say so in anything. When you don't discipline your kids from the beginning, this is what happens. Then you try when they 10 & 12 years old to put them in they place. By then it's too late, cause you have let them disrespect you this long they don't see a reason to start now. She should have been whipping his butt from the get go, and putting her foot down from the beginning letting him know who is in charge and the things he wants don't have to be given to him, it's a priveledge.
Can you say the kid needs some Imodium?
I would have knocked his ass off of Dr. Phil through Phil Donahue, back to Fat Oprah. My heart dropped just thinking about when I was growing up and you even looked like you were thinking about talking while a grown up talked..you flapped them gums? Guess you didn't have much to say...while you're collecting your thoughts and wondering did anyone get the number of the Grey Hound bus that just ran you over.. feeling like you had a major concussion.. truthfully so it would not be on tv.. i would have grabbed his behind and snatched him into the closet and locked the door and starting hollering out.. ding dong the witch is dead and while in the dark I'm tearing dat..asparagus up and when the camera's find me when Im walking out the closet.. I would have called for a medic since I didn't have my pill this morning and I'm suffering from shell shock and when he hit me it took me back to saigon, or hanoi and I just snapped...on that ASSPARAGUS
The child has obviously witnessed abuse if not towards himself then probably towards his mother. He probably was hollered at and slapped around when he was little and that is why he behaves in this fashion...(you get what you give)...children learn from what they see and hear..... Children do not misbehave because they want to be bad, they are usually looking for attention and if bad attention is all they can get than that is what they will take. Maybe mom needs to pay more attention to her sons needs, and yes years of being pushed away, abused and hollered at will definately make a person angry and frustrated, that boy looks like he is in desperate need of some REAL LOVE. It appears that he was given food in place of love and quality time. Mom needs some serious councelling so she can remove herself from her own abusive relationship. This boy feels it is okay to abuse his mom, obviously she has led him to believe its okay for her to be mistreated. I am a single mother of two now adults, and my son had some anger/behavioural issues which I dealt with in a loving way, now he is 20, yes he still has his own opinion (which he is strong about), but he would NEVER think of hitting me, but then I rarely spanked my children, and if I did it was a spank on the behind, not a slap across the face or a punch in the arm or anything abusive like that. DISCIPLINE NOT PUNISHMENT ... LOL, just remembered one time when my son was about 12 he made me soooo angry and I charged at him all he did was laugh, we ended up both laughing and that was the end of that. (I am 5'0" and then 105 lbs) he has always been a big boy at age 9 he was in a mens 12 shoe, so picture that scenerio of me charging at him..... had to share that one. Children are wonderful and all they want is RESPECT and LOVE. Treat them the way you want them to treat you......remember one day you will be old and they will be the ones in control.
This boy truly needs the HOLY S#%T slap out of him.
I would be looking down at the corpse of my son saying, "Damn he really had a valid point. But when I left and went back to jail, I would have been satisfied knowing that he learned the ultimate lesson and that I would have peace because I would be one parent that truly knows while my son is living his eternity in the peaceful suroundings of GOD, he would think twice before he raises his hand or voice to him for fear that his Dad would come to heaven and knock the hell out of him again. Bottom line. We need to let all children know that there are definite perimeters for ALL adults especially for the one that birth them. That should be the first adult that you learn to respect.... Keep living and we will keep learning.... Spare the rod; spoil the child...